What if you were told that five
children, as young as twelve years old, were found roaming the streets last
night in your neighborhood after fifteen cars had been broken into by having
their windows smashed? One of the
vehicles was yours and this was the third time this has happened in the last
month. Also, your favorite flower shop
down the street had been vandalized by a fifteen year old boy who was also with
this group of kids. He spray painted a
vulgar word on the entire front wall of the shop. How does that make you feel? Are you a little mad right now? If you are, then you are probably not
alone. There have been an increasing
number of crimes committed by juvenile delinquents across America. This is probably of no surprise to you. In addition, it is not surprising that our
American justice system continues to struggle with trying to balance the
tradition of punishment and rehabilitation of juvenile delinquents with the
empty after effects of blame and responsibility. There appears to be marginal satisfaction to
victims in our current juvenile justice system.
There are millions of dollars lost every year by cities, organizations,
and individuals through the commission of these crimes by juveniles. The only way to recover most of these costs
is through insurance coverage, which only increases the premiums for everyone,
including the victims. The real question
that needs to be answered is how do we prevent these unnecessary juvenile
crimes from happening? The answer to
this question is simple but hard to hear for many. The prevention is in parenting. Yes, that’s right, good, attentive
parenting. Then that raises another
question, how do we get parents to be thorough and attentive when they are too
busy or really just don’t want to be?
The answer to that is simple too.
Parents should be held legally responsible, in some capacity, for the
crimes their children commit! Is that a
scary thought? Only to those parents who
do not grasp or embrace the entire purpose of being a parent. Of course we could not hold all parents
unequivocally responsible for everything their child did. There are situations that would warrant
exceptions, such as if a child was diagnosed with a psychiatric disorder or had
some type of identifiable substance abuse.
That being said, parenting is the first line of defense in this
increasing epidemic. Parents are the
first to teach and monitor their child and should bear the responsibility of
correcting any early anti-social behavior.
Admittedly, it would be a tall order to implement any legal
responsibility onto the parents of these juvenile delinquents, but anything is
possible if we work out the details. The
first step would be to start with some reasonable ideas, discuss them, and then
not be afraid to try some. Making
parenting a community effort as opposed to pointing a negative finger at the guilty
parents can also help make the transition to more responsible parenting an
easier pill to swallow for some reluctant parents as well.
It is common knowledge that every human being is different, and this
includes children. Even children from
the same family, who seemingly have the same up-bringing, can behave in
completely opposite manners. There could
be many different reasons for this. A
couple of which could be diagnosed psychiatric disorders and possible substance
abuse. It would not be fair to hold
parents responsible for their child’s actions if their child fell into one of
these categories. Bruce Bower confirmed
that “Youngsters who exhibited emotional ailments, such as depression, anxiety
disorders, along with substance abuse had the greatest chance of getting
arrested for serious and violent crimes by age 21” (Bower, p. 308). This is not to say that the parents are free
of the responsibility to get their children correctly diagnosed and with the
necessary medication or therapy. This is
only to recognize that even when a parent exercises reasonable control over
their child, there can be some circumstances that are still out of their
control. In these cases, the parents
should not be held legally responsible for the crimes committed by their
children.
Although there are inevitably going to be exceptions, it shouldn’t draw
attention away from the most important preventative measure, which is thorough,
attentive, caring parenting. Parents are
obviously the first ones that can recognize anti-social behavior in their
kids. As reported in the Journal of
Experimental Criminology, there has been significant evidence that has
indicated that early parent involvement and monitoring was effective in
reducing delinquency and crime later in adolescence (Journal of Experimental
Criminology, 2009). It is not
unreasonable to expect a parent to be somewhat involved with and monitor their
children. A person writing into the
Townsville Bulletin puts it this way, “It’s a fundamental responsibility of
being a parent that you keep an eye out for them…law-abiding parents know where
their children are” (Townsville Bulletin, 2009). If parents choose to distance themselves from
this responsibility early in their child’s life then it is only fair that they
be shouldered with some of the legal responsibility of the delinquent
consequences of these actions when they arise later.
At first glance, it may appear to be a daunting task to actually get to
a point where legal responsibility on parents is practical and fair. Appearances can be deceiving. We only need to start the discussion and not
be afraid of trying some of the suggestions.
For example, the city of Debuque, Iowa has come up with a proposed
parental responsibility ordinance that makes a lot of sense. Here is a brief description of that was being
proposed if a parent fails to exercise reasonable control over their juvenile
delinquent. For the first violation the
parent would receive a warning letter that the parent is in violation of the
ordinance and a statement setting forth the fines for future violations. A second violation would incur a municipal
infraction and a fine of $250. In lieu
of a fine, and subject to approval of the police chief, the parent may elect to
complete a recognized course of instruction on parenting skills or submit in
writing a plan of action for steps that will be taken to prevent further
unlawful acts by the minor. The third
violation would warrant an issuance of a municipal infraction and a fine of
$500. Additional violations would be
penalized with a fine of $1,000 for each violation. Anything past a fourth violation would also
be referred to the county attorney for review in consideration of a possible
criminal charge (Piper, 2007). “This ordinance
makes the parents or guardians responsible for the behavior of any juveniles in
their care and requires they exercise reasonable control of the juveniles”
(Piper, p.A1). This ordinance was
challenged in the Iowa Supreme Court by some citizens who were not willing to
take on these responsibilities. The Iowa
Supreme Court ruled by recognizing a municipality’s right to implement parental
responsibility ordinances. They said,
“Laws such as this ordinance are based on the fairly simple rationale that, if
the state imposes sanctions or threatens to impose sanctions on the parent for
the delinquent acts of his or her child, the parent will exercise better
control and supervision over the child, thereby reducing or eliminating future
acts of juvenile delinquency by that child.
When a child resides with his or her parent, the parent is probably in
the best position to control the child’s behavior. Thus, there is a reasonable fit between the
government’s interest to curb delinquent acts of a child and the requirement
that a parent should exercise reasonable control over his or her child” (Piper,
p. A1).
It is a common reaction for people to get offended when someone
insinuates that something is wrong with the way they are parenting. Parenting can be a very personal and private
topic. Nobody wants to be told they are
a bad parent. This is part of the
current problem. Egos and feelings get
hurt and the focus turns to the parents defending their parenting honor instead
of where it should be. The focus should
be on how the community, as a whole, can come together and support these
parents while changing the boundaries and expectations of acceptable
parenting. Society has relied too long
on enforcement and punishment for juvenile delinquent crimes. It has been too easy for parents to hide
behind the veil of private enforcement and punishment, which is often
considered to be private family matters.
Leslie Harris explains that, “The express messages of parental
responsibility laws are that parents can and should exert significant control
over teenagers and that it is appropriate and suitable for the community, as a
whole, to define good parenting”. She
goes on to say, “This message seems positive…research has shown that
neighborhoods in which parents collectively share the responsibility for
supervising children are less likely to experience high crime rates than
neighborhoods in which parents do not attempt collective supervision” (Harris,
p. 38). This supervision is not only
meant in the literal sense. It can also be
conveyed by new expectations in parenting and the acceptance of the responsibility
of these expectations within the community.
There is no doubt that being a parent is one of the toughest things you
can do in life. It is a lifetime gig
that can offer challenges that seem unending and unrelenting. Most parents would probably agree that, given
that, the rewards still outweigh the risks and tough times. They may even think that bearing the legal
responsibility of their child’s mistakes are just too much. On the other hand, is it fair that society
bears the legal and fiscal responsibility of their child’s mistakes? Of course not, that’s why parents should be
legally responsible, in some capacity, for the crimes their children
commit. Community involvement and
raising the expectations of acceptable parenting is the best way to tackle the
problem of juvenile delinquency if we want to see long term measurable
results. And even if the results turn
out to be less appealing than expected, isn’t it still for the better? It is widely accepted that the most effective
way to improve in any aspect of life is to raise the bar and always strive for
more. Let’s not be afraid to raise the
bar on parenting and see what happens.
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